NARCISSISTIC
PERSONALITY
DISORDER
Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance,
a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others.
But behind this mask of extreme confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that's vulnerable to the slightest criticism.
A narcissistic personality disorder causes problems in many areas of life, such as relationships, work, school or financial affairs.
People with narcissistic personality disorder may be generally unhappy and disappointed when they're not given the special favors
or admiration they believe they deserve. They may find their relationships unfulfilling, and others may not enjoy being around them.
Treatment for narcissistic personality disorder centers around talk therapy (psychotherapy).
Narcissistic personality disorder affects more males than females, and it often begins in the teens or early adulthood.
Keep in mind that, although some children may show traits of narcissism,
this may simply be typical of their age and doesn't mean they'll go on to develop narcissistic personality disorder.
Although the cause of narcissistic personality disorder isn't known, some researchers think that in
biologically vulnerable children, parenting styles that are overprotective or neglectful may have an impact.
Genetics and neurobiology also may play a role in development of narcissistic personality disorder.
Symptoms
Signs and symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder and the severity of symptoms vary.
People with the disorder can:
At the same time, people with narcissistic personality disorder have trouble handling anything
they perceive as criticism, and they can:
a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others.
But behind this mask of extreme confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that's vulnerable to the slightest criticism.
A narcissistic personality disorder causes problems in many areas of life, such as relationships, work, school or financial affairs.
People with narcissistic personality disorder may be generally unhappy and disappointed when they're not given the special favors
or admiration they believe they deserve. They may find their relationships unfulfilling, and others may not enjoy being around them.
Treatment for narcissistic personality disorder centers around talk therapy (psychotherapy).
Narcissistic personality disorder affects more males than females, and it often begins in the teens or early adulthood.
Keep in mind that, although some children may show traits of narcissism,
this may simply be typical of their age and doesn't mean they'll go on to develop narcissistic personality disorder.
Although the cause of narcissistic personality disorder isn't known, some researchers think that in
biologically vulnerable children, parenting styles that are overprotective or neglectful may have an impact.
Genetics and neurobiology also may play a role in development of narcissistic personality disorder.
Symptoms
Signs and symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder and the severity of symptoms vary.
People with the disorder can:
- Have an exaggerated sense of self-importance.
- Have a sense of entitlement and require constant, excessive admiration.
- Expect to be recognized as superior even without achievements that warrant it.
- Exaggerate achievements and talents.
- Be preoccupied with fantasies about success, power, brilliance, beauty or the perfect mate.
- Believe they are superior and can only associate with equally special people.
- Monopolize conversations and belittle or look down on people they perceive as inferior.
- Expect special favors and unquestioning compliance with their expectations.
- Take advantage of others to get what they want.
- Have an inability or unwillingness to recognize the needs and feelings of others.
- Be envious of others and believe others envy them.
- Behave in an arrogant or haughty manner, coming across as conceited, boastful and pretentious.
- Insist on having the best of everything — for instance, the best car or office.
At the same time, people with narcissistic personality disorder have trouble handling anything
they perceive as criticism, and they can:
- Become impatient or angry when they don't receive special treatment.
- Have significant interpersonal problems and easily feel slighted.
- React with rage or contempt and try to belittle the other person to make themselves appear superior.
- Have difficulty regulating emotions and behavior.
- Experience major problems dealing with stress and adapting to change.
- Feel depressed and moody because they fall short of perfection.
- Have secret feelings of insecurity, shame, vulnerability and humiliation.
People with narcissistic personality disorder may not want to think that anything could be wrong,
so they may be unlikely to seek treatment. If they do seek treatment, it's more likely to be for symptoms of depression,
drug or alcohol use, or another mental health problem. But perceived insults to self-esteem may make it difficult to
accept and follow through with treatment.
If you recognize aspects of your personality that are common to narcissistic personality disorder or you're feeling
overwhelmed by sadness, consider reaching out to a trusted doctor or mental health provider. Getting the right treatment can help make your life more rewarding and enjoyable.
so they may be unlikely to seek treatment. If they do seek treatment, it's more likely to be for symptoms of depression,
drug or alcohol use, or another mental health problem. But perceived insults to self-esteem may make it difficult to
accept and follow through with treatment.
If you recognize aspects of your personality that are common to narcissistic personality disorder or you're feeling
overwhelmed by sadness, consider reaching out to a trusted doctor or mental health provider. Getting the right treatment can help make your life more rewarding and enjoyable.
TREATMENT
Psychotherapy
Narcissistic personality disorder treatment is centered around talk therapy,
also called psychotherapy. Psychotherapy can help you:
Psychotherapy
Narcissistic personality disorder treatment is centered around talk therapy,
also called psychotherapy. Psychotherapy can help you:
- Learn to relate better with others so your relationships are more intimate, enjoyable and rewarding
- Understand the causes of your emotions and what drives you to compete, to distrust others, and perhaps to despise yourself and others.
- Accept and maintain real personal relationships and collaboration with co-workers.
- Recognize and accept your actual competence and potential so you can tolerate criticisms or failures.
- Increase your ability to understand and regulate your feelings.
- Understand and tolerate the impact of issues related to your self-esteem.
- Release your desire for unattainable goals and ideal conditions and gain an acceptance of what's attainable.
- and what you can accomplish.
LIFESTYLE AND THERAPY TIPS
You may feel defensive about treatment or think it's unnecessary.
The nature of narcissistic personality disorder can also leave you feeling that therapy is not worth your time and attention,
and you may be tempted to quit. But it's important to:
You may feel defensive about treatment or think it's unnecessary.
The nature of narcissistic personality disorder can also leave you feeling that therapy is not worth your time and attention,
and you may be tempted to quit. But it's important to:
- Keep an open mind. Focus on the rewards of treatment.
- Stick to your treatment plan. Attend scheduled therapy sessions and take any medications as directed. Remember, it can be hardwork and you may have occasional setbacks.
- Get treatment for alcohol or drug misuse or other mental health problems. Your addictions, depression, anxiety and stress canfeed off each other, leading to a cycle of emotional pain and unhealthy behavior.
- Stay focused on your goal. Stay motivated by keeping your goals in mind and reminding yourself that you can work to repair damaged relationships and become more content with your life.
